CandyBar is the easiest, quickest and by far, the safest way to customize the icons found in the system and application toolbars of Mac OS X.
CandyBar also lets you customize apps, folders, clipping icons, locations and even the OS X Trash icon!
Mac OS X 10.5 or higher.
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